I certainly understand that as you grow 50, you develop
tense and anxious for multiple reasons which are actually unnecessary. You may
feel that there will be a change in your
lifestyle either willingly or unwillingly due to issues including those related
to fitness and health. There are no
gender differences. But, believe me, during the run-up to 50, one has gathered a lot of experiences and there are plenty
of other reasons to get cherished for completing half a century successfully.
Now it is a beginning of new era in your life. It is time to rethink,
reimaging, and fulfill your dreams and desires without any worries.
So accept the reality, write your bucket list, and begin the
joy-ride towards the best life one can imagine. Let the positive side of the
situation cultivate in you and scratch away pessimism. As I can see, turning 50
arrange for lots of profits as well, here are some of those to help you look at the
bright side of the situation.
Be virtuous for your age
This is very
advantageous. Being 50. now you are playing second innings where you can
again start to love your life as what you have is what is the best. Acknowledge
yourself for keeping your body in working order all throughout these years.
People start asking for your guidance
This may be shocking for those who were
never been given the chance to express. But now your experience and your ideas
are valued. People including strangers will welcome your guidance on different kinds of stuff making you more positive.
You don’t bother to complain
Now you are at the stage where earlier bothering
situations don’t matter. You don’t mind your children going for dinner without
you; you don’t pay unnecessary attention to poor service, music playing at the boutique or traffic on the roads.
No need to pretend to like things
Now you can share your true willingness and
nobody will feel being offended. So without any resistance, just say NO to the stuff
where you actually don’t want to get involved in. See, it’s much easier.
You are free from needless fears of your
looks, clothes, ornaments, and etiquettes.
You begin to take less time for getting ready, require fewer options to choose
from, visit only minimal shops for getting all the items you need and still feel
quite happy for your possessions.
The point to note is that the possibility of this new
beginning is enormous. Earlier you realize the purpose of your life and ignore
pointless worries; sooner your life starts to get better. This is the vital
message of being 50.